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Nov 2020
26m 25s

#15 Rebirth, Desire, and Friendship

FAHAD ALENEZI
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You can get addicted to trying to love someone into loving you—and they won’t. You shouldn’t have to work so hard for so little. Some experiences force you to kill a part of you, so it’d be reborn into a new you.

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