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May 2023
9m 2s

Let Go, Move On, and HEAL Your Broken He...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

"What if you're so afraid of rocking the boat with someone you REALLY like that you forget to uphold your biggest standards?"

It's such a common story: we fall for someone, find ourselves thinking we can't live without them, and compromise on everything in the hopes of making them happy. 

Today, Matthew explains how to deal with this scarcity mindset and keep your confidence and self-worth even when you're afraid your standards might cause you to lose someone...

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