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May 2023
45m 13s

Making Friends In Your 20's

Lily Rakow
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Your twenties are the part of your life where your friends become your family. In this episode, Lily gets real about overcoming loneliness to create true friendships post-grad, in a new city, and as an adult. She tosses out some ideas of places to meet new people, how to maintain and strengthen friendships, managing long distance friends, and the importance of having both female and male friends! Find Your People by Jennie Allen The Art of Slow Living & Why It's Important To My Healing Journey Follow Lily on Instagram Follow 80/20 on Instagram Join the Group Chat Subscribe to the Newsletter Lily Rakow is a holistic health & lifestyle guru on a mission to uncomplicate wellness for twentysomethings - and her podcast 80/20 is no exception. Lily chats about all things health, nutrition, fitness, personal growth, relationships, and much more. Subscribe for new episodes every Thursday.

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