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May 2023
30m 6s

Change UR Perspective: GHOSTED

Violet Benson
About this episode

Welcome back!! This is part 2 of the Change Your Perspective week, where we talk about changing your perspective as part of mental health month! This past Tuesday, we discussed how we can view 'situationships' differently. SO TODAY, we will be discussing GHOSTING.

Today, Violetta gives us a different perspective on the question commonly asked, “WHY DID HE GHOST ME?” Aside from breaking down the reasons why ghosting happens in a lot of relationships, Violetta also shares tips to turn the tables around and make him chase after you, instead of you chasing after him. 


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:16 Why did he ghost me?
  • 03:54 There’s a few reason why someone ghosts you
  • 06:42 People take a gamble when they leave you
  • 10:03 Make up possible scenarios in your head 
  • 14:48 Three simple ways to get over a heartache
  • 20:22 It’s not actually about the person who left
  • 22:31 Listen to that music that hits different


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