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May 2023
12m 29s

Want More From Someone? Don't Chase & Do...

Impact Theory
About this episode

Ladies, we are the boss at creating a story about a person before we even have the first date. This leads us to drama, disappointments and feeling totally blindsided often for situations we could’ve avoided had we done this one thing.

Matthew Hussey is masterful in how he delivered massive truth bombs about men and dating to help women better manage expectations and avoid heartbreak. His YouTube channel is clearly a fan favorite with close to 3 million subscribers and almost half a BILLION views on his content.

This bite sized nugget is packed with all the truth some of us really needed to hear today. Matthew lists the 4 Stages of Importance in starting a potential relationship, and highlights our special skill for creating stories when we’re dating and the trouble that really causes.

Let’s stop creating stories and jumping to conclusions and start doing this instead.


“If the reaction is hysterical, it’s historical” -Unknown


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