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Sep 2022
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93: Sex Drive Differences & Performance...

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WOAH. This week Lyndsey Fraser took this podcast to an entirely new level. A NEW FREAKIN LEVEL! Before you listen we highly recommend grabbing your partner, a pen, and your active listening skills. Lydnsey (MA, LMFT, CST) is a certified sex therapist and a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has been maintaining a small private practice since 2011. 


We chat about the connection between enneagrams and sexuality, desire discrepancies, and how the relationship cycle plays out in a long term commitment. Syd and Soph even share their OWN sexual insecurities to get a professional take on the issues. Hint: we know we aren’t the only ones who struggle with performance vs enjoyment vs being in the moment during the “deed.” MEN this is for you too!


Later in the episode we dive into the normalcy around refractory periods, erectile dysfunction, and whether porn is okay to watch while in a relationship. We are so excited for you all to listen, share, and review! 


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