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May 2024
1h 36m

The Real Reason Why ‘Nice Guys’ Finish L...

Adam Lane Smith & Sarah Dawn Moore
About this episode

🎙️ Catch the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with our very own attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith, and the always insightful Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re super excited to have Dr. Robert Glover join the conversation!

 

We're diving deep into some heavy, intriguing topics: Is monogamy really natural for humans? How have our tribal pasts shaped today's relationship norms? We're questioning everything from the pressures of lifelong monogamy to how modern relationships fit (or don’t fit) with our ancient wiring.

 

Whether you're curious about shaking up the status quo or just love a good, thought-provoking discussion, this episode with insights from Dr. Glover will definitely give you something to think about!



✨ Must-Watch Episode Highlights:

 

👉 Debating if monogamy is truly part of human nature or a societal construct.

👉 How our tribal past influences modern relationships and sexual norms.

👉 The role of digital media in challenging and changing our perceptions of therapy and relationships.

👉 How understanding our evolutionary background can help us navigate personal and professional relationships.

👉 The balance between embracing our nature and adapting to societal expectations.

 

Join us as we challenge conventional wisdom and explore new perspectives on human behavior, monogamy, modern therapy, relationships, and self-awareness. 🎧



If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode: Alex Clark on The Surprising Truths About SSRIs, Equality & The War on Kids 

https://youtu.be/Hg6gfWmbFNY 

 

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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 



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Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/drrobertglover/ 

Amazon:     https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B00LPHBX6M 

 

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov 

Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en 



The next episode drops Thursday :)

See you there. 



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