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Apr 2023
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Episode 116- Taking a Break from Dating

Tinx
About this episode

This episode I tackle a subject that I find repeatedly in my DMs and that is how to take a break from dating.  Dating fatigue is real, so I am sharing a meaningful approach to taking a break from the apps, set ups, and awkward first dates.

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