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Mar 2025
20m 52s

Rethinking Love Beyond the Highs & Lows

The Angry Therapist
About this episode
Today, John explores the allure of chaotic relationships, the transition to stability, and the need for growth in love. He also discusses the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our past experiences, how they shape our romantic lives, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s ... Show More
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