#68: Am I “In Love”?

As I share more & more of my personal journey of healing, I see how even the everyday events, the ups and downs of just normal life have been affected by my past. Today, I am telling you a story & discussing the importance of understanding one's reactions and the impact of past e ... Show More

In episode #243 I reminded you that YOU are the one that decides who in your life is healthy for your wellbeing and who may not be so healthy for you. In this episode I take it one more step, let's explore why it is confusing and why your mind becomes clouded when looking at your ... Show More

In this episode, I reflect on my personal journey towards peace and self-acceptance after years of navigating the long term effects of my toxic relationships. I share my experiences of anxiety and stress related to vacations and how my perspective has shifted over time. Through s ... Show More

When we experience healthy love for the first time after years of unsettling, unhealthy, toxic relationships, one of the first reactions we can have is "why does this feel so boring?" Often we confuse safety with a lack of passion, or assume that just because this person doesn't ... Show More

Struggling with our self worth can often impact how deserving we feel of love. This sense that we may be 'unloveable' causes us to miss out on healthy, fulfilling relationships, self sabotage and stay with people who don't deserve us. In today's episode, we discuss:  The origins ... Show More

EP2 - Spilling the tea on my love life. Continuing from my last episode, I talk about 17-18 year old Anna. Topics:Not being able to feel proud of myselfWhy I felt so emotional after releasing my first episode.Struggling to grieve my dad.Depression.Dropping an A-level.My ex-boyfri ... Show More

welcome to the first episode of My Monday Mood!Today we are starting with a mini episode talking about self love. What does the term "self love" even mean? What does it look like?I hope you enjoy this lil episode and please let me know your thoughts / feedback by dm'ing me on the ... Show More

There is nothing worse than watching someone you love suffer in a toxic relationship. I can’t tell you how many messages emails, voice memos I get from those of you out there who are in the situation and I thought it was time that I spoke about it. In today’s episode, I break dow ... Show More

In this episode, I talk about why we find comfort in unhealthy relationships. I talk about one question to ask yourself to challenge your inclination to seek out or put up with chaotic love.My new book "That's Bold of You" is available now on Amazon!Text me: 312-584-4002Instagram ... Show More

Cate and Diggory take more of your questions including 'Why is my penis hurting?' 'How do I kiss a girl?' and 'Why am I so horny after buying a prostate piping toy?' Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our ano ... Show More

In this episode, I talk about what to do if you feel like giving up on dating and that you're unlovable. I talk about what it means to experience "failed" love and why you should double down instead of giving up. Get "The New Mindset Journal", "Single is your Superpower"  and "UN ... Show More

Today, a trailer from Am I Normal? with Mona Chalabi, a new TED Original podcast. ​​Everyone wants to know if they're normal. Is my body normal, is my brain normal, are my feelings normal? When it comes to defining “normal,” data journalist Mona Chalabi isn’t interested in averag ... Show More

It is very painful and confusing when you consistently find yourself in relationships or "situations'' with people who are not fully available to you. In this episode, Jillian explains why you're attracted to people who are not good for you, why you settle for less than what you ... Show More