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Apr 2023
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Do You Worry You’re Undateable? with Rel...

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About this episode

One of our most popular guests – behavioral scientist, dating coach, and author Logan Ury – is back for another incredible conversation. We’re discussing the feeling of being “undateable” due to family trauma, past relationship baggage, an STI, being a virgin, etc. and how to own your story and share it with a potential partner. Logan breaks down why vulnerability is the primary thing that makes people feel close to you and how to open up more on dates, and we also discuss her experience living on a commune with her partner and all their friends, and the importance of OSOs (other significant others). Before Logan joins us, we’re catching up  on Rayna’s hot new neighbor and Ashley’s nail journey, and we’re sharing our feelings about officially moving from NYC to LA. Plus, we have recs. Enjoy!

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