As you know I'm not a big advocate for getting back together with exes. However, it does happen- BUT in this episode I lay out the 5 things you MUST consider before making the decision to get back together with them. By considering these 5 things you're much less likely to make the decision impulsively and more likely to make a decision that actually works o ... Show More
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#329 How to Heal After Infidelity with Lauren LaRusso
In today’s expert episode, I’m sitting down with Lauren LaRusso, a psychotherapist specializing in extramarital affairs and author of "Beyond Infidelity." We go deep into the complex world of infidelity—why it happens, how it affects everyone involved (the betrayed partner, the u ... Show More
50m 8s
Jun 23
#327 Perfectly Hidden Depression: Why High Achievers Struggle in Silence with Dr. Margaret Rutherford
In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Margaret Rutherford, clinical psychologist, author, and host of The SelfWork Podcast, to dive deep into the topic of “perfectly hidden depression”—a term she coined and explores in her bestselling book and TEDx talk. We discuss how tho ... Show More
44m 25s
Feb 2024
#131: On Getting Back Together with an Ex
<p>In today's episode, we're talking all about getting back together with an ex. Facing the prospect of rekindling after a relationship has ended can bring up so many conflicting feelings - longing, optimism and hope, together with fear, worry, self-doubt and anxiety. < ... Show More
26 m
Jul 2020
Should You Get Back With Your Ex?
Chances are you probably shouldn't get back with your ex, but just in case you're one of the few where a romantic reunion is due, we're talking through it -- a checklist to determine if you actually want to be back together, assessing whether and why it would work this time aroun ... Show More
1h 40m
Oct 2024
#162: How to Stop Hoping Your Ex Comes Back
<p>In this episode, we're exploring the common and very human experience of hoping an ex will come back after a break-up, saying they've changed their mind and want to reconcile. <br/><br/>Whether you were left unexpectedly or the break-up was a long time coming, the ho ... Show More
13m 15s
Mar 2023
#55: "I can't help but hope that my ex comes back. How do I let go so I can move on?"
<p>In this Q&A episode, we're talking all about moving on after a break-up. Specifically, what to do when we want to move on, but deep down we're still very much hoping our ex will reach out and want to rekindle.</p><p>We cover:</p><ul><li>the importance of allowing ... Show More
11m 17s
Aug 2025
#121: Why Chasing an EX or Relationship Backfires (Do This Instead)
Are you panicking to get an EX back, get over him, or find “the one”? That urgency isn’t attracting him—it’s repelling him. In this episode, I reveal the #1 mistake women make when trying to reconnect with a man… and the simple shift that brings your true magnetic energy back.💖 ... Show More
3m 40s