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Jun 2024
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103 - CC HIGHLIGHT: Considering Taking Y...

Cartia Mallan & Ashton Wood
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We're revisiting our favourite moments for the past 100 episodes of Common Chaos! This week we're talking about all things EXES! Have you ever found yourself considering taking your ex back? Su and Lu are here to help you! Listen as we recap their best advice about what not to do with your ex... Follow us on: Instagram: @_commonchaos TikTok: @_commonchaos ... Show More
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