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Mar 2023
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Episode 11: Self-forgiveness

The LightHouse Arabia
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Self forgiveness We use up ALOT of energy holding down our grudges against self and other… And in the cancel culture we live in, it’s easy to become hypercritical of others and ourselves. But news flash: All human are fallible- yes even the hero’s and the gurus. And holding them, or yourself to an unrealistic standard of perfection hurts them, and you. No on ... Show More
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