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May 2021
1h 11m

When feelings of inadequacy prevent you ...

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
When the feelings of inadequacy overcome you, do you let them linger in the background? Do you repress them so that they come out in emotionally destructive ways later? Inadequacy usually has a source. We'll talk about that and a lot more in this packed episode. 
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