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Jun 2022
48m 45s

how to cope when you feel like you have ...

Mollie Adler
About this episode

If you’re a highly sensitive person who often feels overwhelmed by intense emotions, this episode is for you. We dive into the experience of having “big feelings”—emotions so strong they can feel all-encompassing and difficult to manage. Together, we’ll explore the concept of emotional permanence, the sensation that certain emotions feel unshakable in the moment, as well as emotional dysregulation, which can lead to intense, unpredictable reactions. We also discuss a challenging but important topic: how difficulties with emotion regulation can sometimes result in unintentional harm to loved ones. This episode sheds light on how to navigate these intense feelings with greater awareness and offers compassionate insights for fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. Join me as we unpack the complexities of big emotions and how we can learn to honor our sensitivity without allowing it to consume us or those we care about.


Recommended resources: 

Martha Beck podcast interview about how deciding to quit lying for a year changed her life

Book | The Way of Integrity: Finding Your Path to Your True Self by Martha Beck

YouTube video further describing issues with emotional permanence and BPD

Article on how to deal with emotional impermanence 


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