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Mar 2023
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Ep. 180 - I know I deserve better but I ...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

Knowing you deserve better is one thing, but showing up like you deserve better doesn't come as naturally as we would hope. I hear it all the time "I know I deserve better but I secretly just want my ex to BE better." 

 

In today's episode:

  • Learn why we can conceptually understand that we deserve better but don't show up differently

  • Understand what next steps you can take to receive the kind of relationship you know you deserve

  • Become someone who has a partnership they know they deserve

 

The How to Get Over Your Ex 5 Day Training: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/live5dt/


The Get Over Your Ex in 3 months or less program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex

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