The truth is that we create much of our own suffering. Why is this awesome? If we can identify something we are doing to create our own suffering, then we can fix it!
Jul 24
Overgeneralization -This Thinking Pattern Makes Everything Feel Worse
This CBT tool helps you stop overgeneralization, regulate emotions, and break negative thinking patterns with simple, practical tools. Check out our FREE How to Stop Panic and Anxiety Attacks course: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/ending-panic-attacks-and-anxiety-attacks ... Show More
18m 43s
Jun 27
4 Essential Habits for Emotional Regulation
You can learn how to regulate your emotions by practicing these four skills. People who regulate emotions well don’t avoid feelings—they build habits that help them pause, process, and respond with intention. In this video, I’ll teach you 4 essential emotional regulation habits t ... Show More
19m 30s
Jun 2023
How to Heal Your Self Concept
Ooh, let's do a juicy interactive podcast episode! *PLEASE TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN WELL-BEING.* In this ep., we dive into how we can understand our self-concept, specifically through the lens of something we currently really want/around a major "decision maker" in o ... Show More
29m 32s
Mar 2025
187. The Surprising Power of Triggers, Tough Love, & Looking at Your Blindspots to Uplevel + Heal
In this episode, I dive deep into the idea of taking radical responsibility for our lives and how embracing triggers can lead to personal growth. I explain how being open to uncomfortable moments and reflecting on the role we play in our own struggles can help us step into our em ... Show More
18m 36s
May 2025
457: Transform Your Triggers Today
<p dir="ltr">In this episode, I dive into the real work of healing emotional triggers, especially when they show up in our relationships. I walk you through how to find the root emotion behind your reactions, why childhood experiences still impact us today, and why true healing h ... Show More
30m 22s
Oct 2021
When Self Care Becomes Selfish and Victimhood Becomes Paradigm
Let's talk about self-care, pleasing others, personal responsibilities, feeling victimized and true healing. All Things Koze Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/allthingskoze/ Koze Flow Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kozeflow/ Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.co ... Show More
27m 31s
Feb 2019
70. Clean v Dirty Pain (Breakups, Death, etc)
Discover the difference between clean and dirty pain, and how embracing this concept can diminish so much unnecessary suffering in your life. Emotional pain and misery are bound to come up, but this tool is going to help you flow through it with less resistance.Get full show note ... Show More
23m 48s
Jun 2024
Self Heal Before You Hurt Others
Send me a messageWhen we hurt, we hurt others. When others hurt, they hurt us. It's a vicious cycle that has spread its tentacles to every corner of this planet. If we are going to create a more peaceful and loving planet, it's starts with healing ourselves.In today's podcast, I ... Show More
24m 38s