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Mar 2021
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4/30 Clean vs. Dirty Pain: Are You Creat...

Therapy in a Nutshell -Emma McAdam
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The truth is that we create much of our own suffering. Why is this awesome? If we can identify something we are doing to create our own suffering, then we can fix it! 
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