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Mar 2023
24m 12s

#155: Stop Self-Sabotaging with This Qui...

Mary Jelkovsky
About this episode
Mary has been struggling with self-sabotage so she’s talking about it! Tune in to hear a quick way to stop self-sabotage in its tracks. Remember: self-sabotage’s close cousin is perfectionism… If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love: - *The Gift of Self-Love*: ... Show More
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