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Sep 2023
11m 33s

Ep #269: How to Stop Self-Sabotaging

KIRSTIN SARFDE
About this episode

Do you self-sabotage? Are you confused about why you do it? Would you like to stop? If you answered yes, then this episode is for you.

 

I’m breaking down self-sabotaging so you can understand why you would do this to yourself. I’m also going to show you how you can prevent self-sabotage so you can keep moving forward toward your goal. Listen in to find out how you’ll do it.

 

Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!

 

Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/269

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