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Feb 2023
1h 49m

Lighting myself on fire to keep you warm...

Ladies & Tangents
About this episode

After many requests, we decided to break-in the new studio to discuss Attachment Styles. We both took the quiz and were greatly surprised by the results. This was not an easy one to record, but was so cathartic. Watching it back, it is clear to see just how many *ah-ha* moments were had. This is a long boy of an episode, but we hope that the info in it will be something that brings you comfort on your healing journey!

FIND YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE-

https://www.attachmentproject.com/anxious-attachment-relationships/

RESOURCES-

https://psychcentral.com/lib/how-to-change-insecure-attachment-style

https://psychcentral.com/health/4-attachment-styles-in-relationships

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a39194727/attachment-styles-theory/?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory

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GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES-

https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535

https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/

https://buildpalestine.com/2021/05/15/trusted-organizations-to-donate-to-palestine/

https://www.vox.com/2015/5/14/18093732/israel-palestine-misconceptions

https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/52045757

 

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