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Feb 2023
17m 39s

Ep. 176 - Rejection after a breakup

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

Let’s talk about rejection after a breakup. Many of my Bravehearts feel rejected by their ex’s, their ex’s family and/or friend group. Learn how to navigate rejection so that you won’t be scared of experiencing it again when you begin to date again. 

 

In today’s episode:

  • Learn what rejection really is and why you don’t have to be afraid of it

  • Understand what keeps you stuck when you’re feeling rejected

  • Become immune to rejection in the future

 

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