logo
episode-header-image
Feb 2023
42 m

55: Authenticity on social media is over...

NATALIE KENNEDY
About this episode

Our obsession with authenticity is putting the responsibility of discerning "reality" vs. "not-reality" on creators – when this is not where our focus should be, as consumers. In this episode, I talk about how I think consumers' obsession with authenticity has gone too far – and if we could change the conversation around authenticity, we would have less FOMO and "shoulds" and be a heck of a lot happier.

BOTH FEET IN Course

https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/both-feet-in-self-study-course

Register for Quit Comparing Your Relationship in 7 days: A Telegram Challenge: February 8-14, 2023

https://anxiouslovecoachschool.teachable.com/p/quit-comparing-your-relationship-in-7-days

Up next
Yesterday
What to do with ROCD breakup urges
<p data-pm-slice="1 1 []">Hey! In this episode I shared my story with breakup urges in my relationship with my now-husband and partner for 14 years. Boy do I know the panic of the thought "BREAK UP!"</p> <p>I also shared how I stopped experiencing these altogether, and how you ca ... Show More
32m 27s
Nov 14
Relationship Anxiety is Victim Consciousness
<p>Hot take: relationship anxiety is the fear of being "stuck" or powerless. There's no shame in falling into the trap of thinking we'll be victims to the circumstances in our lives— but once you see it... you don't have to choose it. You can choose to stay empowered no matter wh ... Show More
34m 5s
Jul 2025
How to resolve the "should I stay or should I go?" conflict
This is an IG LIVE - you can watch it here Join me for Tension of Opposites starting July 10th HERE 
30m 55s
Recommended Episodes
Mar 2025
Why 80% Of Relationships Breakup (80/20 Rule) | S1 E3
We spend so much time obsessing over the 20% of things that don’t really matter—what they think of us, if we said the right thing, if we’re doing enough—when in reality, 80% of our happiness comes from the simplest things. The people who show up. The moments that make us feel ali ... Show More
14m 59s
Jan 2025
269. How to care less about others opinions
Everyone has an opinion, but are they all worth listening to? When we're not careful we can get carried away by imagining what people may or may not think about everything from our outfits, to our life choices, to our social media presence, to our relationship decisions. When we ... Show More
37m 40s
Jul 2025
SOCIAL MEDIA IS FAKE
<p>From “perfect” bodies to luxurious lifestyles, social media can make it feel like everyone else is living a dream life, except you. But what if that dream is just a well-lit illusion? In this episode, we’re exposing the truth behind the filters, the fakeness, and the constant ... Show More
9m 8s
Feb 2025
The Power of Authenticity: Stop Pretending & Start Showing Up Fully
Real talk: Are you living your truth, or are you still hiding behind fear, perfectionism, and other people’s expectations?In today's episode, we’re getting real about authenticity, self-expression, and what it actually takes to build a magnetic, raving fan community. Whether you’ ... Show More
23m 49s
Jul 2024
81. Not for Meet Cutes + How "Sex and the City" Lied to Us
<p>Welcome back to Not For Everyone, where this week, Jess and Caroline think people need to cool it. They discuss how people don’t know how to be properly annoyed anymore, how people can’t stop demeaning Americans on the internet, and how people go insane in the comment sections ... Show More
1h 13m
Apr 2025
FOR THE THOUGHT DAUGHTERS: how to stop caring what people think, comparison and setting boundaries - ADVICE SESSION #11
<div>ADVICE FOR OVER THINKERS AND PEOPLE PLEASERS!!! <br> <br> this episode covers: <br> - being okay with being disliked <br> - how to not let something bother you <br> - embracing confidence <br> - how to stop comparing yourself to others <br> - finding your boundaries regardle ... Show More
40m 45s
Jul 2024
82. For You: The Body Image Talk You Needed a Long Time Ago
<p>This episode is sponsored by Shopify. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at ⁠<a href="shopify.com/notforeveryone/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">shopify.com/notforeveryone/</a>⁠. ___ This week, Jess and Caroline add to a conversation that seems to affect just ... Show More
1h 20m
Jan 2025
BOUNDARIES: why you need them & how to set them | stop people pleasing & feeling guilty!
THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY HINGE #hingepartner https://hin.ge/abetteryoubyfernanda LONG TIME NO EPISODE AH! my apologies!!!! happy 2025! in this episode we are talking all about the importance of BOUNDARIES!!! how to confidently/respectfully set them, why you need them, the di ... Show More
39m 24s
Aug 2024
healthy but wanting to be HER (true identity, confidence, comparison tips)
<p><span>I&#39;ve spent most of my life trying to be a watered down version of someone else... falling into trend traps, jealousy, comparison and insecurity. One minute I want to be an earthy surfer girl, the next &#34;that girl&#34; with perfectly put together everything. It&#39 ... Show More
38m 13s
Sep 2024
Is Social Media Still Worth the Time?
We love nothing more than tackling a controversial digital marketing topic, and on today's podcast episode, we dive into whether social media is really still worth the time and investment for brands. We explore a wide number of frustrations that marketers face when posting online ... Show More
36m 38s