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Feb 2023
37m 44s

Let go of them and become MAGNETIC as f*...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

We all know how this story goes; You’re in love or like with someone but you’re holding on too tight. When you choose to let go of them, they sense it and try to come right back into your life. In this episode I build on how to take your POWER back after a breakup and talk about what being magnetic means, what letting go looks like and the empowerment you’ll feel when you experience the freedom of stepping into your higher self.

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