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Jan 2022
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Episode 533: 10 Reasons Your Ex Is Conta...

LUCIA
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When you've been dumped, you have a 90% chance of hearing back from your ex. However, they're not necessarily reaching out to get back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 reasons why your ex is contacting you.
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