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Jan 2023
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Feel Them PULLING Away? - AVOID THIS MIS...

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Investing months and years in a relationship that you secretly question and know to be wrong for you feels like insanity to stay and even more foolish to leave the longer you stay in it. Have you ever been nervous about asking too many questions when you first begin dating? It’s natural to feel like you may run someone away with a line of questioning, but Matthew Hussey is a reminder that you can never scare away the right person for you.

Matthew Hussey is a dating expert and the relationship guru millions of women turn to while trying to decipher what kind of dating life is best and how to get the guy they wants. He’s the bestselling author and life coach that brought you How to Get the Guy, and in this clip he’s running down how to stop lying to yourself about the relationship you wish you had and the actual relationship you’re living with.

Look for the person that wants to be in a relationship, and be honest with yourself if your partner is the wrong person for you and have the courage to choose something different that leaves potential for a healthier relationship.


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