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Aug 2022
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The 3 BIGGEST REASONS Why MOST Relations...

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About this episode

Dating to have a long-term relationship means being intentional and doing things a little differently. Judging the success of your existing relationship on the passion you feel now and your ability to suppress your doubts and insecurities for the moment are not great long-term strategies for a successful relationship.

Let’s get straight to the point and help you figure out what you’ll need to start doing to have a healthier, happier, and longer lasting relationship with the right partner.

If you ever searched for relationship advice on YouTube chances are you've seen Matthew Hussey, the relationship guru appear in the search results. His YouTube channel and career has been dedicated to helping women Get the Guy by showing women how to rediscover their power so they can start dating from a place of empowerment, confidence, and security. His dating advice and approach to coaching people in relationships is real, raw, and honest.

Today he’s talking with Tom and sharing 3 things everyone must know and account for if being with your partner for the long-haul is a goal. Between Matthews 15 plus years experience coaching women and Tom’s 20 plus years of being successfully married, they are dropping gems you can’t afford to miss.


SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to Matthew Hussey

0:47 | 3 Ways to Fix Your Relationship (1:48)

15:33 | Secret to Making Each Other Happy

28:47 | The Right Relationship Is Hard Work

37:47 | Allow Space for Insecurities

46:57 | Break Your Emotional Patterns

53:14 | Do This To Stop Arguing Over B.S.

1:13:51 | Dating Differences for Men and Women

1:30:37 | Regret of Having Kids or Relationships?


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