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Dec 2022
25m 50s

Creating A Safe Space & Active Listening

The Angry Therapist
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In this episode, John talks about how to create and hold a safe space and practice active listening in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights ... Show More
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