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Dec 2022
20m 8s

les red flags dans une relation amoureus...

Léa Jplf
About this episode

J'ai vécu une relation toxique, passionnelle lorsque j'avais 15 ans. C'était ma première relation et elle a été très destructrice à plein de niveaux : ma confiance en moi, mon identité, dans mon entourage, pour mes futures relations, (..).

Mes ami.e.s et ma famille avaient beau me dire que c'était pas normal, j'étais totalement sous emprise, je romantisais cette relation destructrice et je me renfermais. Je pensais que ce serait là seule personne que je pourrai aimer et qui m'aimerait.

Aujourd'hui je vous partage les redflags que j'aurai aimé connaitre, qui auraient peut-être pu me faire avoir un déclic, qui m'auraient alarmé dans ma relation.

Je vous partage ceci pour normaliser les relations simples, saines, sereines, qui font pas trop de vagues et qui ne font pas mal. Quand on aime, on ne devrait pas souffrir.


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