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Nov 2023
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situationships, anxious attachment and m...

Anna Archer
About this episode
EP61 - let's get juicy...in this episode, i wanted to share some of my recent realisations on love, relationships and all things anxious attachment. i have learnt a lot about myself and what i would want in a relationship easily so also run through a big list of my green and red flags. hopefully this helps you and/or you resonate, lotsa love as always xxx

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