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Nov 2022
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How to Have the Sex Life You Want feat. ...

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We could not love this episode more, and are so happy for you to hear our conversation with sex therapist Vanessa Marin about communication in your sex life. She explains how to bring up a sexual slump or frustrations in your relationship with the exact language to use and type of conversations to have, how to tell your partner to stop doing something you don't like and start doing what you do like, techniques for spanking and choking and how to get your partner to do these things the way you want it (and vice versa), the best way to 69, and more. Before Vanessa joins us, we're chatting about Ashley's unexpected erotic encounter and Rayna's secret dream job, and discussing those feelings of "all my friends are married" that can creep in especially during the holidays. Enjoy!

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