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Apr 2020
1h 19m

04 Love In Lockdown (Vanessa Marin)

REMY KASSIMIR
About this episode

We’re talking love and relationships in the time of quarantine with none other than sought after psychotherapist Vanessa Marin, who specializes in sex therapy and couples therapy.

She gives us insight into maintaining a happy relationship while working and living in such close quarters, navigating new relationships while being quarantined separately, and dating in quarantine as a single person. (How?!)

Finally we discuss Vanessa’s online programs that help you transform your sex life from ordinary to extraordinary, all from the comfort and privacy of your own home. [Courses like The Passion Project: A Couples’ Blueprint To Rediscovering Desire And Reigniting The Spark and Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm.] Open up those ears and legs, and hopefully we will all emerge revived and more sexually equipped. Enjoy! 

 

Follow Vanessa on Instagram @VanessaMarinTherapy

Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir.

Check out our website for live shows & merch! Extras on Patreon.com/howcum

 

Also mentioned in this episode:

The Domestic Abuse hotline: If you or someone you know is stuck in a situation that is unhealthy please reach out to https://www.thehotline.org/help/

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