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Sep 2020
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stop comparing yourself: you're built di...

SEPHY AND WING
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it's the low self-esteem for me. we're back with another ~stunning~ episode, and this week we're talking all about comparisons. whether we compare ourselves to celebrities, influencers, or people in our lives, we're breaking down how women are raised to pit themselves against one another. join us (sephy and wing) as we get vulnerable with you, discussing comparison, self-esteem, and insecurities. we're building confidence from within and restructuring our self-perceptions once again. it's time to stop hating ourselves and actually live our best lives.

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