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Oct 2022
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2509: Sneaky Satisfaction of Complaining...

Justin Malik
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Ellen Burgan of If It Brings You Joy talks about the sneaky satisfaction of complaining

Episode 2509: Sneaky Satisfaction of Complaining by Ellen Burgan

Ellen Burgan is a midlife woman who loves to have fun, yet has a big appreciation for the art of relaxation. She prefers to live spontaneously and go where the wind blows. If It Brings You Joy is a blog that inspires ideas to make life a little better for yourself and others. Ellen has a passion for bringing joy to her life and share her ideas with you.

The original post is located here: https://ifitbringsyoujoy.com/how-to-stop-complaining/ 

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