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Sep 2022
17m 35s

We Snap Back Sometimes

The Angry Therapist
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In this episode, John talks about how no matter how much work we've done on ourselves, we can still snap back to our old ways. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insig ... Show More
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