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Jan 2024
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Why We Cheat, Reflections of 23', & Sexl...

The Angry Therapist
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In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss personal growth, the cost of living, supporting each other's growth, why people cheat in relationships, and what's happening behind closed doors in sexless marriages. They emphasize the importance of championing each other's stories and working through challenges in relationships, and conclude with reflections on the ... Show More
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