In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the revelations they have while writing a book together, and pulling themes from their past and current relationships.
John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th! Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled ... Show More
Apr 29
When Love Feels Like an Addiction
In this vulnerable solo episode, John Kim explores love and sex addiction through the lens of attachment, emotional regulation, childhood wounds, and relationship ruptures. After a painful conflict with his partner, John reflects on how love can become a way to regulate anxiety, ... Show More
24m 28s
Apr 27
Asian Shame, Childhood Trauma, and the Friendships That Heal Us with Sam Louie
What happens when two men in their 50s look back at the childhood pain that shaped them and realize friendship can be medicine? John rides in the car with therapist, author, and longtime friend Sam Louie for an honest conversation about Asian shame, childhood trauma, masculinity, ... Show More
50m 46s
Apr 23
Therapy Thursdays | Love, Trust, and Knowing When to Let Go
In this Therapy Thursdays episode, John answers some of the hardest relationship questions people carry quietly: trust after infidelity, emotional disconnection, fading desire, avoidant partners, honesty that hurts, and the pain of knowing when it may be time to let go. He explor ... Show More
18m 34s
Feb 2022
How Not to Ruin Your Relationships | Drs. John & Julie Gottman
<p>If you care about your long term health and happiness, the quality of your relationships is an area you should focus on. And the good news here is that love – as it applies to friends, family, and romantic partners – is not a factory setting, but instead a skill. Drs. John and ... Show More
1h 8m
May 2022
Create Trust in Your Relationships, Day 6 Mindful Relationship Habits
This podcast is sponsored by The Coldest Water, a company at war with HOT. They believe that the COLDEST things are the best things in life. Built for athletes and high performers, they are famous for creating The Coldest Water Bottles, to The Coldest Pillow, to The Coldest Icepa ... Show More
13m 56s
Feb 2023
What happens after HEALING, feeling STAGNANT, LETTING GO of what you LOVE, JEALOUSY | Advice session #1
On todays episode i respond question you guys left on i missed me's instagram. what happens after healing? how to avoid feeling stagnant? letting go of what you love, jealousy, etc. with love, MafeGo to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and checkout all of I Missed MeSign up to our me ... Show More
21m 15s
Feb 2023
LEARNING how to be SINGLE, LOVE vs. ATTACHMENT & dealing with a NARCISSIST | Advice session #2
On todays episode we talk about how to deal with a narcissist, how to detach from someone that you're still in love with, learning how to be single and letting go of friendships. With love, MafeGo to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and checkout all of I Missed MeSign up to our membe ... Show More
20m 23s
Jul 2023
Envy's Grip: Unmasking the Jealousy that Strains Relationships
<p>In this episode, Bryanna bravely tackles the complex topic of jealousy and its detrimental impact on relationships. Drawing from her own experiences and observations, she provides valuable insights into how envy can erode trust, communication, and intimacy. And if you've e ... Show More
1h 12m