Nov 26
When Your Partner Can’t Meet Your Needs… Do You Stay or Go?
In this module of the video course, we explore what really happens inside relationships when two people are trying — and struggling — to grow.
We talk about emotional language, repair, anger, shutdown, nervous-system responses, and what it means to feel safe with someone for the ... Show More
27m 40s
Nov 24
Going Rogue: The Truth About Becoming Yourself
In this raw, unfiltered reflection, John shares the real story behind going rogue as a therapist — from coffee-shop sessions to walk-and-talks, to breaking every rule therapy school ever taught him.
He explores the lifelong pattern of exchanging truth for membership, the fear of ... Show More
22m 27s
Oct 2024
Male Sexuality, Leaving Your Marriage, and Gen Z
<p>Today, John and Shaun talk about fear, negative feedback from listeners, asking for what you need, and male body and bedroom insecurities. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you get the courage to leave a marriage, and how do you deal with jea ... Show More
1h 8m
Nov 2024
Sex Work, Life Purpose, and Lack of Sleep
<p>Today, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener’s question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat? </p>
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59m 49s
Nov 2024
The Election, Women’s Safety, and Soft Men
<p>Today, Shaun and John talk about Shaun’s big move to Los Angeles, John and Vanessa’s wedding in Mexico, and how people respond to men crying. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: what does “we can do better” mean in politics for the male community righ ... Show More
56m 23s
Feb 2025
Using Heart-Based Connection in Building Healthy Relationships with Dr. Thema Bryant
<p>In this enlightening conversation, Kimberly interviews<strong> Dr. Tamah Bryant</strong>, a renowned psychologist and author, about her new book 'Matters of the Heart.' They explore the significance of emotional connections, the journey of healing from trauma, and the importa ... Show More
53m 7s
Aug 2024
Vasectomies, Sex Toys, and Should Women Ask Men Out?
<p>Today, John and Shaun discuss how they handle criticism on social media, men getting vasectomies, using sex toys in the bedroom, and hall passes for celebrity crushes. They also answer a listener's question and give advice about whether women should wait for men to chase t ... Show More
1 h
Today, John and Vanessa discuss the complexities of relationships, focusing on communication, attachment styles, and the importance of maintaining individuality. They touch on the dynamics of 'runners' and 'grabbers' in relationships, the significance of co-regulation, and give practical tips for sustaining a healthy partnership.
Order John's new book, Brea ... Show More
