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Sep 2022
24m 34s

Understanding Relationships Part II: 7 N...

Rose Skeeters
About this episode
Borderline Personality Disorder is no longer considered a chronic illness. You can lead a great life with a sensitive, intense, hyperbolic... or any temperament for that matter with hard work, grit, endurance, tenacity, and the willingness to get uncomfortable. In this episode, I continue our talk about understanding relationships and how to become aware of ... Show More
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