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Sep 2022
52m 22s

Decoding Emotions

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
About this episode

We like to think that all humans are born with the same core emotions: anger, fear, joy, sadness and disgust.  But what if that's not true? This week, psychologist Batja Mesquita offers a different model of emotions — one that can help us to better understand our own feelings and those of the people around us. 

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