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Aug 2022
55m 48s

Our Bias Means Intent Gets Lost in Trans...

KKNW | HUBBARD RADIO
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Greg and Stacy review what they discussed last week about listening for intent AND content, and they talk a bit more about the power of our two “brains;” the brain and the heart. Greg picks up where he left off to discuss more about how our past experiences influence what we hear and how we hear it. He explains that listening with our hearts creates empathy ... Show More
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