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COLLIN GOSSELIN: The Real Story Behind One of America’s Most-Watched Families
Collin Gosselin opens up about what it was really like growing up in the spotlight of Jon & Kate Plus 8, sharing his personal account of life behind the camera. He recounts his experiences with family isolation, allegations of physical abuse, time spent in a basement room, and hi ... Show More
1h 36m
Oct 9
5 Signs Someone Is Draining Your Energy (And What to Do About It)
Jay explores how draining relationships can quietly take a toll on our bodies, minds, and emotional well-being, leaving us depleted before a conversation even begins and carrying its weight long after it ends. He breaks down five signs of chronic relational stress, from managing ... Show More
34m 23s
Oct 7
Sabrina Zohar: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Want You
Jay sits down with dating and relationship coach Sabrina Zohar to unpack why we chase the familiar over the safe, how childhood attachment shapes adult dating patterns, and the real difference between boundaries and walls. Together they dig into anxious-avoidant dynamics, chemist ... Show More
1h 26m
Jan 2024
Type 1 & Type 5 | Understanding Conflict Styles & Relational Dynamics
In this Enneagram and Coffee podcast episode, I explore the relationship dynamics between Enneagram Type One and Type Five. I discuss how both types, being competency-focused, might prioritize logic over emotions, potentially leading to challenges. I identify specific triggers fo ... Show More
20m 53s
Sep 2025
These 4 Habits DESTROY Relationships (and You Don’t Even Know It)
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your connections? In this episode, I break down the Four Horsemen of communication and show you how to spot and replace them. Whether it’s with your partner, kids, or friends, you’ll learn practical tools to shift toxic patterns, build appreciation, ... Show More
19m 16s
Jun 2022
Jocko Underground: Are You an Introvert, Extrovert, Ambivert, or Omnivert?
Are You an Introvert, Extrovert, Ambivert, or Omnivert?.Advice on how to start a business.Dealing with Disrespect for my time.Finding time in a busy schedule.Work as an addiction.White belts trying to get the most out of Jiu Jitsu and lazy training partners.
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11m 51s
Mar 2020
243: Understanding Personalities for Better Relationships
Our personality is created by a multitude of complex factors to create a way in which we view the world and relate with others. One theory on the dimensions of our personality comes from the 19th-century spiritual philosopher George Gurdjieff. Today's guest, John Cottone, Ph.D., ... Show More
46m 45s
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We've probably met different types of people with varying personalities and we've never really thought about it. It may seem trivial, unimportant, or unrelated to what we want to accomplish that day. But ha ... Show More