Are you unknowingly sabotaging your connections? In this episode, I break down the Four Horsemen of communication and show you how to spot and replace them. Whether it’s with your partner, kids, or friends, you’ll learn practical tools to shift toxic patterns, build appreciation, and strengthen every relationship in your life.
Nov 21
Success is hard until you build systems like this
Are you making success harder than it needs to be? In this episode, I break down the systems that make discipline automatic—so you no longer rely on memory, motivation, or mood. You’ll learn how automation, environment design, habit stacking, friction, default decisions, and acco ... Show More
17m 16s
Nov 20
How to Be So Productive it Feels Illegal
Why does productivity feel so hard even when you want it badly? In this episode, I break down why your brain fights you, how to flip your internal “motivation switch,” and the real reason discipline feels impossible. Feeling stuck? It's time to take back control. If you're ready ... Show More
15m 31s
Feb 2025
LOVE EXPERT Stephan Speaks: 7 Ways You are Blocking Yourself From Meeting Your Soulmate (Change Your Patterns to Find the ONE)
Do you think your “type” limits you? What’s one unrealistic dating expectation you’ve had? Today, Jay welcomes back one of the most insightful voices in modern dating and relationships, Stephan Speaks. If you’ve been searching for clarity in love, struggling with self-worth in da ... Show More
1h 28m
Oct 8
5 Lessons to Become Magnetic — Stop Chasing and Start Attracting [Lewis Howes SOLO]
<p>For years, I chased relationships from a wounded place, trying to prove my worth instead of owning it. I made partners my entire world, confused chemistry with compatibility, and stayed in relationships way longer than I should have because I lacked the courage to speak my tru ... Show More
44m 23s
Jan 2025
S3 EP9 | How to Take Your Relationship to the Next Level | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 9 of The Messy Podcast!
In this episode, we dive into how you can take your relationship to the next level using The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. This powerful theory encourages you to value your time and engage in honest conversations with your pa ... Show More
20m 6s
Feb 2025
The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You
<p>In this episode, you’ll learn the truth about relationships that no one ever tells you. </p><p>Today, Mel and her husband Chris, who have been together for 30 years, are answering your biggest relationship questions and giving you their secret to a happy relationship. </p><p>P ... Show More
50m 22s
Jan 2025
S3 EP1 | The Truth No One Told You about Adult Friendship | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 1 of The Messy Podcast!
In today’s episode, we dive into the complexities of adult friendships, a topic that many people struggle with. With insights from The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, we explore how to nurture and strengthen your relationships. ... Show More
13m 4s