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Mar 2021
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016: Romantic Relationships: From Toxic ...

KELLEY BODE
About this episode

Can you relate to feeling stuck in a toxic relationship? Or maybe you hop from one relationship to the next, never truly feeling fulfilled or connected to the other person? I want you to know this one thing - you are not alone! In today’s episode, I take you behind the scenes of my journey with romantic relationships - releasing myself from a toxic relationship (even though I still felt very connected to her!), why I chose celibacy to find healing, and how you can find deeper connection, better sex, and a loving relationship by putting yourself first. 

We’re diving into:

  • The pain of leaving a toxic relationship (it isn’t easy, but it’s SO worth it!)
  • Acknowledging our unhealthy relationship patterns so we can release them
  • Why I chose celibacy to start my healing journey (and what happened when I broke it!)
  • The BIGGEST lessons I learned while celibate
  • Why I created a “dating plan” when I re-entered the dating world (and why this is such a GREAT tool!)
  • The MOST IMPORTANT things that are different in my current relationship
  • And so much more!

 

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