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Sep 2022
1h 15m

How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your ...

Connell Barrett
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How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend

Do you struggle with your love life? Do you lack dates, lack confidence, and even lack hope? Do you want to approach attractive women, but you never do? Maybe you get lonely at times, too.

Help is on the way! Dating coach Connell Barrett can help you fix ALL those problems, starting TODAY, using the power of “radical authenticity.” The Dating Transformation podcast will teach you how to gain confidence, flirt with charm, and find a great girlfriend—and do it all as your best, authentic self… NOT some “pickup artist” creep.

In the debut episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell welcomes a VERY special guest—thought leader and bestselling author Dr. Robert Glover, author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy.”

Connell’s conversation with Dr. Glover will teach you…

-The secret to instant self-confidence with women
-Dr. Glover’s favorite technique to stop being “too nice” with women, and awaken your
best, most magnetic self.
-3 things you should NEVER say when flirting, and what you should say instead
-PLUS: Dr. Glover shares a simple move you can use TODAY to get over your fear of
rejection and start confidently approaching women.

Listen now, so you can go from dateless “Mr. Nice Guy” to your most confident, authentic you.

LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER AND THE COURSES HE OFFERS:
drglover.com

GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:
DatingTransformation.com

Quotes:
"Nice guys seek approval and validation from others. Everything a nice guy does or says is at some level calculated to gain someone's approval or avoid their disapproval." - Connell

"There's a certain percentage of women out there who's going to love the you that you are just the way you are." - Dr. Robert Glover

"A certain percentage of women out there are going to love you just the way you are, as the REAL you." - Dr. Robert Glover

Featured in the episode:
Dr. Robert Glover
Author, therapist, coach, educator, and public speaker
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428
Twitter: https://twitter.com/dr_r_glover
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drrobertglover
Website: https://www.drglover.com

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
01:58 What is the nice guy syndrome?
12:14 Why do nice men seek women’s approval?
15:38 Monogamy and dating are not in our DNA
22:06 Women and security
36:11 Embrace rejection
51:01 Game-changing tips
55:36 Conclusion

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com/
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