Are you tired of overgiving, overthinking, and feeling like you’re always the one chasing in relationships, friendships, and even your goals? The secret to effortless attraction—whether in love, success, or self-worth—is detachment.
Detachment isn’t about being cold or unavailable—it’s about becoming so secure in yourself that you no longer grasp for attenti ... Show More
Jan 2025
Boundaries, Self-Worth & More!
Get 45% off the Magic Mind bundle with with my link: https://www.magicmind.com/ERICJAN00:00:00 Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others00:03:32 The Terrible Tale of the “Gunnysack”00:07:26 Try a Hypothetical00:10:54 Use the “Five Whys” technique
Stand Up For ... Show More
21m 6s
May 2025
validate yourself like your life depends on it (because it does) | self worth and respect
Be honest, have you ever done everything right and still felt like it wasn’t enough? The workouts. The skincare. The glow-up routines. But deep down… you still feel small, anxious, or like you're constantly being judged. That’s not a "you" problem, it’s a self-worth problem.In th ... Show More
18 m
Sep 2025
How to Be a High Value Woman (Without Playing Games)
In this episode, I dive into what it really means to be a high-value woman—and why detachment is the secret ingredient to lasting confidence and healthy relationships. Being “high value” isn’t about looks, status, or playing games—it’s a mindset rooted in self-worth. I break down ... Show More
35m 51s
Oct 2025
Stop Giving More Than You Get in Relationships
If you keep feeling drained in your relationships — like you're giving more than you get — this episode will shift everything. Whether it’s friendships, family, or your partner, there’s one powerful mindset that can help you protect your energy, create emotional balance, and stop ... Show More
6m 22s
May 2025
Introducing: How to Love Yourself No Matter What
Are you an emotionally intense woman who’s ever felt like you’re just too much—or maybe not enough? On this podcast, I help you break free from shame, overwhelm, and the pressure to fit into someone else’s boxes. I’m Amanda Hess, trauma-informed life coach, and each week we dive ... Show More
1m 36s
Aug 2025
The 5 Words That Kill Your Confidence
Welcome to today’s powerful episode of the show — where we expose one of the most common, invisible lies holding you back from confidence, boldness, and a fully alive life. What’s the lie? Just five words: “I can’t because I’m scared.” It sounds reasonable — even factual. But wha ... Show More
19m 57s
Sep 2024
Heal + Create Safety with Love and Money
Ever feel like you’re constantly chasing the next big thing—whether it's in your business, your love life, or just trying to keep up with what you see on Instagram? You’re not alone. In this episode, I dive deep into how I got caught up in the hustle, trying to force success and ... Show More
30m 7s
Oct 2025
Quinlan Walther: Stop Chasing Love Just Because You’re Lonely! (Do THIS to Attract the RIGHT Relationship)
Have you ever stayed in a relationship just to avoid being alone? Did staying make you feel better or worse over time? Today, Jay sits down with writer and relationship coach Quinlan Walther to explore what it truly means to build healthy, lasting relationships. Quinlan, known fo ... Show More
1h 28m
Mar 2025
How to Gain Self-Respect & Earn Respect from Others: The Key to Confidence & Boundaries
Do you struggle with self-respect and setting boundaries? Do you feel like people don’t respect you the way you deserve? In this episode of *You First: A Journey to Self*, we’re diving deep into the power of self-respect, how it influences the way others treat you, and the key ha ... Show More
11m 27s