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Oct 2017
5m 40s

Why You Go "Crazy In Love"

LUCIA
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Why do lovers often act crazy and make decisions that make no sense?  Are they under some kind of spell?  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what's happening and what you can do to stop the crazy behavior.

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