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Jul 2024
46m 17s

HELP. I Have a Crush on Someone Else

Caitlin Consolo and Kendal Clark
About this episode

Have you ever had a little tingling for someone while in a long-term relationship that you think you shouldn't have? Do other people have this too? Am I a horrible person? This week the girls are diving into crushes while in a long-term relationship, how to handle it and if it's normal or if your relationship may be in turmoil.


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