Fresh off the Southeast leg of the U Up? Live Tour, J and J recap everything that happened on the road. At 11:00 a listener writes in suggesting that people should encourage their boyfriends not to watch porn. Is your sex life destined to be more fulfilling if you cut out porn altogether? At 28:00 the Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a bar mishap, a trip to ... Show More
Sep 9
I’m ICKed Out Over My Boyfriend Fangirling Over a Tennis Player
It’s Jordana’s birthday, Happy Birthday, Jordana! J&J debate wedding plus-ones, jealous partners, and how much texting is too much when you’re dating. They also dive into a text thread discussion of a boyfriend fangirling over a professional tennis player and his girlfriend is ge ... Show More
1h 14m
Aug 2024
The Orgasm Gap, Anger Management, and Should We Break Up?
<p>Today, John and Shaun talk about their recent retreat experiences, celebrity man crushes, and their first blowjobs. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: Is it a woman's responsibility to ask the man she's dating to go down on her, and how d ... Show More
1h 13m
Apr 2020
Dirty Talk, Porn Addiction, & Hot Dudes - ASK US ANYTHING
From women yearning for dirty talk to the lure of all-you-can-beat porn to an accidental fucboi, this Ask Us Anything episode explores the myriad intricacies of love, dating, and sex in the 21st century. It also includes Steve talking super dirty. Enjoy.
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1h 3m
Oct 2016
Bondage, "Bang Checks," and Shaggin' Wagons
Dating and communicating can be tricky to master. Should you divulge your sexual history? How do you tell someone you’re non-monogamous? What’s the best way to get over your partner’s specific porn preferences? In this show, Emily and Anderson have the advice you need for these a ... Show More
1 h
Sep 2025
Two Therapists in Bed Talk: Can Men Say No to Casual Sex? (And Other Big Questions We Avoid)
From sex myths to second chances, safe choices to stuck seasons - John and Vanessa answer real listener questions from bed. You’ll hear why gendered scripts about sex don’t serve us, what really matters before getting back with an ex, how to choose the “risky” path without regret ... Show More
26m 34s
Mar 2025
Porn, Passwords & Cheating
In this unfiltered episode, Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary dive into some of the most controversial topics in modern relationships. Can a relationship survive infidelity? Should you share passwords with your partner? Is jealousy healthy—or toxic? And where’s the line between porn and ... Show More
39m 13s