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Aug 2024

1h 13m

The Orgasm Gap, Anger Management, and Sh...

Shaun Galanos and John Kim

About this episode

Today, John and Shaun talk about their recent retreat experiences, celebrity man crushes, and their first blowjobs. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: Is it a woman's responsibility to ask the man she's dating to go down on her, and how do I know when (or if) I should pull the plug on a connection after giving it a fair chance? You can leave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001

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